Safe Use Guide

🔥 Before You Begin

  • Patch test first. Always test on a small area before use. Do not use if you or your partner are allergic to soy, bee or paraffin wax.
  • Read all packaging instructions. Never leave a lit candle unattended, and always fully extinguish candles after use.
  • Use appropriate lighters. Long, windproof, or electric lighters are recommended—especially in performance settings or clubs.
  • Keep wax off porous surfaces and fabrics. Candle dye may stain.

🕯️ Candle Handling & Safety

  • Keep wicks trimmed. For container candles, don’t burn all the way to the bottom—this may cause the container to overheat, crack, or damage surfaces.
  • Avoid jet flame lighters unless you're very experienced—they can overheat the wax.
  • Let the first few drops from a newly lit candle fall away from the skin. They may be hotter than usual due to wick ignition.

💧 Drip, Paint, Pour, Splash – Technique Tips

The Four Techniques:
  1. Paint: Hold the edge of the candle near (not on) the skin and “paint” the wax in strokes. This creates thin layers and is the gentlest technique.
  2. Drip: Tilt the candle to let wax drip in a controlled way. Rotate handheld candles for even melting.
  3. Pour: Allow wax to pool slightly, extinguish the flame, and pour slowly—be cautious, pooled wax is hotter.
  4. Splash: Flick or toss wax for impact play. Mind your aim!
Tip: The angle of the candle and the speed of the pour will affect the temperature felt on the skin.


🧊 Managing Sensation & Reactions

  • Watch your partner, not just the wax. Pay close attention to their body language—pleasure or discomfort can be subtle.
  • If a drip feels too hot: Immediately place your hand over the wax to flatten and cool it. This quickly reduces the sting.
  • Avoid prolonged dripping on the same spot—it increases the risk of burns.
  • Use with rope carefully. Keep flames away from suspension lines, skin, and hair. Rotate where the wax lands to let it cool.

🧼 Cleanup & Removal

  • Use a drop sheet. Lay down plastic, old towels, or a wax-safe surface for easier cleanup.
  • Wax on hairy areas? You can apply body oil beforehand to reduce sticking. To remove, use fingernails or a plastic scraper rather than a knife.
  • For safe wax removal: Use a blunt, convex knife or scraper. Never use sharp tools—you can’t always see what’s under the wax!
  • Avoid combining wax with water or ice directly. It can create a mess or even increase discomfort. Ice can be fun but isn’t essential.
⚠️ Never apply ice directly to a burn.

🧯 Fire Safety Essentials

  • Know where your fire extinguisher and fire blanket are at all times—or keep them nearby.
  • Avoid dripping wax from directly upside down. This can create soot, starve the wick of oxygen, and overheat the wax.

☀️ Storage & Candle Care

  • Soy wax may frost or appear cloudy—this is natural and doesn’t affect performance.
  • In warm weather, keep candles out of direct sunlight or hot cars to prevent premature melting.

❤️ Final Thoughts

Wax play is messy, creative, and full of potential for connection and fun. Be attentive, be respectful—and always play safe. 

Have safe, fun sexy play. Be kind. 
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